New Year, New Allowance

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Allowances are a hot topic in the world of personal finance, and for good reason. While we’ve had this debate before it’s one that many parents are new to year after year (which is why it’s a popular post). It’s not just a topic you think about once and forget though. I find that our allowance system (much like our budget) needs flexibility and the flexibility to change as both our children grow and their needs change.

While I’m hosting a series on making over your money in 2013 (Centsible Money Makeover), I thought it’s also a good time to explore how and what we pay our kids for allowance.

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To start you have to consider if you have your ‘oxygen mask’ on first. If you are struggling to pay bills, and living paycheck to paycheck it can be tough to use an allowance as a teaching tool. However it can help decrease the occasional kid related splurge, and allow you to save more yourself if your expectations are more clearly defined.

Questions to Answer about Allowances

  • How much allowance is the right amount for your kids?
  • What requirements of your children have to meet to get their allowance? Should you tie allowance to chores? Require that extra work around the house equals funds? Or tie earnings to schoolwork or grades?
  • Will you allow your child to have full control over their allowance? Do you plan to teach them the value of saving? What about giving back?
  • How will you give your children money? Cash?  A savings account? Track it in a notebook or online?
  • Where will they keep their money? A wallet? A piggy bank? The bank?

What about Teens?
As your kids get older allowances don’t exactly cut it for their increased spending needs, and your need to not dig out $5 every time they ask for last minute lunch money. That’s where a prepaid card can help. The SpendSmart prepaid MasterCard from BillMyParents is a great option for parents and teens alike to take their money management skills to a new level without worrying about overspending or allowing your kids free reign over your credit card.

SmartSpend Features & Benefits

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The SmartSpend card has many great features including the following:

  • Reloadable: Add funds to it anytime and from anywhere.
  • Prepaid card: It is not a credit card or debit/bank card
  • No risk of overdraft: No debt can be incurred, they can only spend what’s available.
  • No credit issues for teens or parents: A huge benefit since many teens head into college and immediately go into debt.
  • For users 13 and over
  • MasterCard: The MC logo means it can be used anywhere MC is accepted.

Parental Guidance
Parents can get instant purchase alerts via email or text to monitor your teen’s spending. If you have an older teen you can set spending limits higher (say $50 purchases). You will also get alerts about the account balance so you can add more funds if your child is away from home and needs money as soon as possible.

Family & Friend Contributions
Family and friends can contribute to your teen’s SmartSpend card anytime. Whether it is holiday money, birthday cash, or even babysitting earnings; others can add to account without a login at anytime.

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Allowance In Our House

In our house we’re adding a few tweaks to our current allowance system.

  • All 4 kids are finally getting their own savings accounts. This will make it easier for them to track their funds and stay motivated.
  • The younger kids get paid weekly an amount half their age.
  • Saving %s were discussed and we opted to split it 50/50.
  • The oldest now gets $50/month which should be sufficient to cover all his expenses as well as leave him funds for saving.

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Disclosure: This post is part of a series being sponsored by BillMyParents on theCentsibleLife.com. For more info or to signup for a BillMyParents card visit www.billmyparents.com.

About Kelly


Kelly Whalen is the founder of The Centsible Life, a blog where motherhood and money meet. Her goal is to help readers live well on less. Kelly is a mom to 4, and loves that she can stay at home with her kids, and still pursue her passions for writing, personal finance, and social media. You can often find her on twitter and Facebook talking money and motherhood.

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  • Julie Anderson

    I agree that kids need to be doing something to earn their allowance. I also think it’s not a bad idea to award bonuses based on good behavior. This will develop their financial character for the future.

  • http://twitter.com/AndreaUpdyke Andrea(LilKidThings)

    These are great tips! My oldest will be 4 on Saturday and we haven’t started an allowance for him yet. He did get a piggy bank for Christmas and we let him put loose change in there from time to time. What age do you think is good to start a weekly allowance?

  • http://twitter.com/Greeblemonkey Aimee Giese

    Love this, thanks!

  • Colleen (Souffle Bombay)

    Great post! I have not done the allowance thing yet with our kids. We do have them earn Itunes cards etc by great grades, and helping extra around the house. Thanks for the food for thought!

  • Estelle Sobel Erasmus

    What a great concept. My little one is only three and a half, but I will tuck this away for future reference.
    Estelle

  • Gina Badalaty

    Pretty neat. My oldest is learning about money in school, so we’re a ways off from a credit card, but you have given me lots of great tips. Now that she’s 10, maybe this is the year to set up an allowance for Amelia, and a bank account.

  • Adrian

    I’ve redone our allowance strategy too for our DS14. I set up a direct deposit to his own checking account. From that he has to pay for his school lunches (I’ve budgeted for 3 lunches/week), pay his fees for his skate crew membership $25, and the rest is his to save or spend via his checks or debit card. So far it is doing very well for us.

  • Tina @ Life Without Pink

    Love this, such a great resource! Now that my boys are getting a bit older I need to use these tips. Thanks!

  • krantcents

    It has been 20 years since I gave my kids an allowance! My children had to perform chores for their allowance and put 50% in savings. It worked because my children are successful adults without debt.