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How To Stay Connected With Your Children Back Home

October 7, 2009 By Kelly 10 Comments

Pengee on a cactus

Pengee on a cactus. Read to the bottom for the story behind this picture. 🙂

Traveling when you have young children and leaving them at home is tough on you and your kids. Finding ways to connect while you are gone is important.

Ways to connect for the parent who is away:

  • phone calls: nightly phone calls are a great way to connect at the end of a long day, and check in every day
  • email: If your kids are old enough to read and type, or you have an adult who will help them you can send notes to each other. Jokes are an especially good way to connect.
  • chat: if your kids are typing you can chat via gmail or Skype. It’s a great way to have a conversation no matter where you are.
  • video: If you have webcams you can have a video chat. This is perfect for kids that are young. [Skype works well for video also.]
  • gifts: Bringing a little something back for them let’s your child know you were thinking of them when you were away. It’s easy to keep it cheap, and it doesn’t even have to cost anything (rock collections are great for this!).
  • photos: Be sure to take photos of any sights you see. Then your children can see where you’ve been through your eyes. Even if it is just a hotel room, or a conference room. (show them how boring it was!)

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Parents or Caregivers at Home

Maybe you are the parent who is stuck at home. It’s important to know that maintaining your regular routine is important, and that some flexibility and understanding is required.

For my kids the day or time when the parent leaves is the toughest. They are often really sad for a few hours. My 7 year old was sad, so I sent a note to school so her teacher would know.

They often exhibit terrible behavior right before and after someone comes home. It’s such an adjustment, and they usually let all the feelings in they’ve been holding back for days.

Learn more: 7 Tips For Smooth Travel Transitions

5 tips to help the at-home parent or caregiver:

  1. Maintain the routine: Keeping things the same is a great way to offer kids reassurance that everything is ok.
  2. Observe: Watch your kids for signs that they are having a tough time. Offer extra cuddles, a book, or just talk with them.
  3. Be flexible: Remember that sometimes the regular routine will be too much for some kids. If something isn’t working that normally does, try something else.
  4. Do something fun: Plan to do something fun that would normally be a family activity. Movie night, mini-golf, bowling, apple-picking; something to get them moving and out for awhile so they aren’t reminded of mom or dad every time they turn around.
  5. Forget the budget and the menu plan: It will be impossible to keep up with everything, so accept that you may spend a little extra while your spouse is away, and you may end up at Chik-Fil-A for dinner 2 out of 7 nights.

Learn more: Guide To Saving On Summer Travel

You may be wondering what the picture above has to do with traveling without kids. Let me explain.

My husband is traveling this week. He is in Arizona, and we were concerned that the kids would miss him terribly. One child in particular, our oldest girl, hates when people are away. She doesn’t even like it when I go out for the evening. She loves being together as a family.

The morning her dad was leaving she woke up and was so sad to see him leave. She ran up to her room just as he was about to head out the door to the airport and handed him her favorite stuffed animal, a Webkinz Penguin she named Pengee.

We made sure to talk every day and any of the kids who wanted to talk to Daddy could. Ideally we would have been able to use iChat with our Macs, but the hubby had a lot going on, and no internet in his hotel.

Instead he sent MMS messages to my iPhone of the Penguin all over the place.

Below are the shots he sent. I think they are adorable.

Pengee reading about other birds
Pengee having a snack
Pengee on cactus
Pengee tucked into bed
Pengee having breakfast
Pengee with skull
Pengee tries out the bed
Pengee poolside

What have you found that works for you to stay connected with your children when you are away?

Kelly

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Kelly Whalen is the founder and editor of the Centsible Life. She started the blog in 2008 as her family faced a mountain of debt and the fixer upper they purchased became a FIXER UPPER. The website was born out of her desire to share what was working (and what was not) on her family's journey to financial security. Kelly lives in Minneapolis with her family.

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  1. Kosmo @ The Casual Observer says

    October 8, 2009 at 10:39 am

    Those are great photos. That’s a big stack of pancakes for such a small penguin – he must be hungry.

  2. Kosmo @ The Casual Observer says

    October 8, 2009 at 3:39 pm

    Those are great photos. That’s a big stack of pancakes for such a small penguin – he must be hungry.

  3. Lauren says

    October 7, 2009 at 6:06 pm

    Kelly, that is so sweet!! What a great Daddy your kids have!!! It's a great idea for when a parent is out of town for more than one night. We've used phones and our webcams for chatting with our Daddy when we need to. It's really funny to see how dd uses the webcam to be super silly… but isn't conducive to bedtime 🙂

  4. Lauren says

    October 7, 2009 at 6:06 pm

    Kelly, that is so sweet!! What a great Daddy your kids have!!! It's a great idea for when a parent is out of town for more than one night. We've used phones and our webcams for chatting with our Daddy when we need to. It's really funny to see how dd uses the webcam to be super silly… but isn't conducive to bedtime 🙂

  5. Jesse says

    October 7, 2009 at 3:12 pm

    Poor penguin, that cactus has got to hurt…

  6. Jesse says

    October 7, 2009 at 3:12 pm

    Poor penguin, that cactus has got to hurt…

  7. mamajoss says

    October 7, 2009 at 2:41 pm

    That's soo sweet that he did that — just adorable 🙂

  8. mamajoss says

    October 7, 2009 at 2:41 pm

    That's soo sweet that he did that — just adorable 🙂

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